The Look
You’ve got to do something about your look. I know, I can’t see you. But you’re looking for dating advice, and while there’s no shame in looking for advice, I guarantee you Hugh Jackman isn’t surfing the web for seduction advice. So I don’t think it’s a big stretch to figure you’ve got some sprucing up to do in the looks department before you start seriously dating.
The Hair
I’m jumping to your hair because it’s the easiest thing after the obvious. By the obvious, I mean your face. Now it’s true, women are far less picky than men. A guy who looks like Billy Joel can seduce a woman who looks like Christie Brinkley, provided he has confidence. But take the time to handle the basics on your face before your date. If you have acne, try and clear it up. If you have facial hair that doesn’t suit you, I advise you to shave it off.
So now the hair. To be seductive, you can’t look like a giant goofball. Screech-from-Saved-by-the-Bell hair won’t cut it. Neither will hair like the guy from A Flock of Seagulls. Your hairstyle should compliment your face. It doesn’t make you less of a man if you scan through a magazine or two to find the right style for you. If you want to get dates, this is solid advice.
Body Hair
Yeah, we need to address this. Some women find chest hair seductive, but no women are clamoring to date Neanderthal Men with the shag rug of back and neck hair. My advice? Get rid of it. Shave it, wax it, laser it, I don’t care if you burn it off hair by individual hair, but get rid of it. The same goes for men with the unibrow. Unless you have two distinct and separate eyebrows, the whole seduction thing won’t be happening for you.
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